Are the following questions familiar to all of you?
Get baby girl?
Which is more important, gender or health? Children are God’s blessing. It is always nice to have both girl and boy.
However, after hearing some friends who have difficulty having a child or have sick child, even Mummy herself went through miscarriage in 2006, we don’t really mind what the gender is for the next child.
If a girl, Mummy will be happy to have someone to decorate. If a boy, we also don’t mind because then he can have fun with his Jeriel KorKor. Most important, we pray God will bless us with healthy and obedient child/children.
When you going to have no2? No good to have far gap, then cannot play together?
We purposely wanted a minimum 3 years gap so that it will be easier for us to manage as PaPa is not always at home. Mummy is usually alone at home to manage everything – housework and Jeriel.
It is a blessing to have PaPa who will help up in everything when he is around. We learn to manage everything by ourselves because we both want our family privacy. Our apartment is too small for a maid and also we cannot afford to pay for a maid.
After miscarriage in 2006 and then Mummy got a new job offer, we decided to put on hold baby no2 until Mummy’s job is more stable.
So, some people will not understand why so far gap but we ourselves know whether we can manage it or not. Deep in Jeriel’s heart, we know he has been asking for a baby.
Life is not always perfect….each of us has different set of problem to manage…
13 years ago
18 comments:
only u guys will know whenis the best time.. :)
Don't bother abt the std questions. When u 'pak thor', ppl ask when u wanna get married. After get married, ppl ask when u wanna hv baby. After get bb #1, ppl will ask when u wanna hv bb #2. So it's endless. Every1 has their own family planning. U don't hv to answer to anyone. So when r u having 2nd bb? LOL
ya...only u guys will know.....take your time...
think this yr got many baby girls. try this yr ..
I am sure you know the answer by now. ;) Take care!
no worries bout it...when the suitable time comes then will come :) and other ppl toking don't care them lah
most important thing now is to maintain your excellent health, then you will be blessed with a healthy beautiful baby...:-)
dun be bothered by what ppl said...lsat time i was bothered by ppl asking me when am in getting pregnant...and i told them "i am ready when i am ready..."
When the time is right, God will bless you with bb no. 2. So just wait and enjoy life with just 1 child :)
Not only no.2, i still have ppl ask me when to get another baby boy to make it 2 pair of boy and girl..haiz.
Don't too pressure yourself with other people comment...You know the best when to have bb no.2....It is all in GOD hand..
having another child is not other people affair but your own. you will know when you are ready :)
people bn started to ask me this Q also ... dun border, we know when to have it >... very true healthy and obedient child/children is most important !!
i waited 5 years till my next kid...it was more like phobia for me not any other thing...
You should know better what you want and what your own family need. Don't bother about what other people will say. But I know sometimes it feels stressful when people pop the question when people around you already have their 2nd or 3rd child. It's like when we don't have any baby and everybody already have one, but now you already have Jeriel and that is the most important thing right now.
that's a baffling question, huh? i'm facing the same dilemma too. it's like the time is ripe now for the 2nd child but i just don't feel like going thru the cycle once more.
it is the right time now?
I agree every one will have diff set of problems. When I got married, everyone kept asking me to give birth. I want to have my own children too but we hv some problems...cant they understand that we do not want to reveal so much??? we waited so long to hv our girl..gender doesnt matter as long they are healthy..
I wish you all the best... don't stress out over this std questions. when it's time, you'll know...
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